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How do I know if He/She is "The One"?

Growing up we are presented with various conceptions of love - familial, friendships, and relationships. My mother always told me, "when you know, you know". Love isn't meant to be easy. Love is hard work. It requires time, commitment and persistence. You have to dedicate your entire heart and soul into one being and when you find a person worth investing as such, go for it. How will you know if he/she is the one?

He/she sends chills down your spine.

If even just the thought of that person can transport you to another planet, you lock that sh*t down.

He/she is your favourite person in this entire world.

It doesn't matter what you are doing or where you are going, you want to experience it with him/her. You always choose them, no matter what.

You always talk about him/her.

Whether you are talking about the weather or your shoe laces, you somehow find yourself bringing up your significant other... even when it is completely off-topic or irrelevant because let's be real, you have no problem talking about them

You share the same values as them.

You both value a strong work ethic, the importance of family and friends, and everything in-between. If your values don't align, your relationship won't either.

You make sacrifices for each other and are happy to do so.

What alone time? You don't even want that anymore. The only time you want to spend is alone with him/her.

The idea of "forever" with him/her excites you.

You know the feeling you got as a child going into a candy store, where you would jump for joy at the sight of your approaching sugar-rush? You'll jump up and down again, this time with cartwheels and summersaults tossed into the mix when you find "the one".

He/she is your "go-to".

When you're sitting at work and something funny happens, he/she is the first person you call to tell them all about it. Even if they don't find it half as funny as you do, you still call to let them know because you want them to be a part of literally everything.

You are comfortable with him/her.

You can pee with the door open while they stand there and have a full-on conversation with you... and it's totally okay.

Your family is now his/hers and vice versa.

What you do for your own, you do for his/hers.

You are each others' priorities.

Regardless of what you have going on in your career or with your family and friends, he/she comes first... always. When this sometimes cannot be the case, he/she understands you and rather than complaining, helps you with whatever it is you are working on.

Silence isn't awkward.

You can sit together in silence for hours on end and you are perfectly happy.

He/she is the best part of your day.

They are all you think about throughout the day and as soon as your day is over at work, all you look forward to is going home to them.

You don't care who is watching.

You can be in the middle of a sea of people and make-out like it's nobody's business.

You do things for each other, just because.

You toss in a head rub or a back massage whenever you have a chance because you know that they love them.. and you don't have to think twice about it.

You think long-term.

You are already planning your next two summers together and it's not scary to you at all.

Your feelings for him/her are unconditional.

Even though they snore at night and sometimes are a little too loud for your liking, you find it cute and wouldn't trade it for the world.

Your attraction for him/her grows.

Every time you see him/her it's like the very first time all over again. They can walk into a room of people and all you see is them... *cue the drool*.

When you tell him/her you miss them, you actually do.

You're away from them for more than 24 hours and it feels like 10 years.

The thought of life without them terrifies you.

No one and nothing else in this world matters more to you. Everywhere they are is home to you and you can't picture a life without them.

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